The Custody Revolution

Drawing on original research and decades of clinical experience, Dr. Richard Warshak examines how custody arrangements shape children’s emotional development, identity, and long-term wellbeing.

Rather than promoting a single model, The Custody Revolution offers a research-informed framework for making custody decisions that prioritize children’s needs and preserve meaningful relationships with both parents.

Why this book exists: Many custody problems blamed on divorce itself are often the result of how custody decisions are made. This book offers a clearer, research-based way forward.

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What you’ll learn

Key takeaways—kept clear, evidence-based, and practical.

Why custody decisions matter so deeply

How parenting schedules shape children’s emotional security, identity development, and long-term relationships—often more than divorce itself.

What research says children need

A clear overview of child-development findings and why children typically benefit from sustained, meaningful relationships with both parents.

Why one-size-fits-all models fall short

How routine assumptions in custody arrangements can unintentionally overburden one parent, marginalize the other, and weaken children’s bonds over time.

How father-inclusive and shared care can help

Research-informed perspectives on substantial involvement by both parents—and how well-structured shared care can support children’s adjustment.

This book also explores

  • How to evaluate custody arrangements beyond ideology or tradition
  • Why discrimination against fathers lacks scientific support
  • How joint custody and father custody can function effectively
  • When and how arrangements should evolve with a child’s needs
  • How parents can reduce conflict while staying deeply involved

Who this is for

Common audiences who use The Custody Revolution as a starting point.

Parents Looking for custody arrangements that protect children’s long-term well-being—not just short-term stability.
Attorneys & judges Seeking research-grounded perspectives on parenting plans and custody decisions.
Therapists & evaluators Interested in developmentally informed approaches to custody recommendations and family functioning.
Policymakers & scholars Concerned with how custody practices affect children at scale and over time.

Note: This resource is educational and not a substitute for psychotherapy, diagnosis, or clinical treatment.